The first mistake when choosing an anal toy is paying too much attention to the feature count.

Ten vibration patterns sound impressive, but size, shape and control matter just as much. A simple tapered plug that fits comfortably can make far more sense than a feature-packed toy that is wider or more complicated than you actually want.

That is why we compared anal toys for men by what separates them in practical terms: insertable size, shape, material, base design, prostate targeting, vibration, remote control, power and cleaning requirements. Raeven’s current range includes plugs, prostate massagers, beads, training sets, slim anal toys and powered options rather than ten variations of essentially the same product.

For most men, Malm Remote Controlled Prostate Massager with Cock Ring is our best overall pick because it combines targeted prostate stimulation, two motors, a wireless remote and an integrated cock ring in one rechargeable design. If you are completely new to anal toys, however, we would choose Traina 4-Piece Men’s Anal Training Set instead. Its four differently sized plugs give you room to progress rather than committing to one fixed size immediately.

Best Anal Toys for Men at a Glance

Best for	Product	Type	Key size	Material	Main feature
Best overall	Malm Remote Controlled Prostate Massager with Cock Ring	Prostate massager + cock ring	9 cm insertable; 9.25 cm circumference	Liquid silicone	Two motors + remote
Best for beginners	Traina 4-Piece Men’s Anal Training Set	Training plug set	7.5–10 cm insertable	Silicone	Four progressive sizes
Best premium butt plug	SVAKOM Primo Remote-Controlled Warming Butt Plug	Vibrating warming plug	26 × 120 mm	Silicone	Heat + vibration + remote
Best remote prostate massager	Eero 10-Function Remote Controlled Prostate Massager	Vibrating prostate massager	10 cm insertable; 3 cm diameter	Not stated	10 patterns + 6 speeds
Best thrusting option	Torq Thrusting Remote Controlled Prostate Massager	Thrusting prostate massager	10.5 cm insertable; 3 cm max diameter	Silicone	Automatic thrusting
Best manual prostate toy	Vard Manual Prostate Massager	Manual prostate massager	11 cm insertable; 9.5 cm circumference	ABS plastic	Firm manual pressure
Best simple vibrating plug	Kvist 7-Function Vibrating Men’s Butt Plug	Vibrating butt plug	8 cm insertable	Silicone	Removable 7-mode bullet
Best compact manual plug	Svan Manual Silicone Men’s Butt Plug	Manual butt plug	7.5 cm insertable; 8.5 cm circumference	Silicone	Compact tapered profile
Best anal beads	Arktis Triple Ripple Anal Beads	Anal beads	Three graduated beads	Silicone	Progressive bead sizing
Best slim dildo for partnered use	Sommar Slimline Silicone Anal Dildo – 5 Inch	Anal dildo	5-inch insertable; 0.9-inch diameter	Silicone	Suction base + harness compatibility

Product specifications above come from Raeven’s individual product listings. Where Raeven does not publish a specification, we have left it unstated rather than estimating it.

How We Chose the Best Anal Toys for Men

We did not rank these products by how many features could be fitted onto the box.

Instead, we compared the details that actually help you decide whether one product makes more sense than another: insertable dimensions, width, shape, material, external base or handle, type of stimulation, control layout, power source and cleaning requirements.

We also looked for meaningful differences. There is little value in recommending five similar prostate massagers when one buyer may need a small manual plug, another wants remote-controlled P-spot stimulation and someone else specifically wants beads or a toy they can use with a partner.

If prostate stimulation is your main reason for buying, Raeven also has a dedicated prostate massagers collection covering manual, vibrating and remote-controlled designs.

1. Malm Remote Controlled Prostate Massager with Cock Ring — Best Overall

Best for: Men who want internal prostate stimulation and external vibration from one rechargeable toy.

Malm gets our overall recommendation because it does more than simply add extra vibration patterns to a standard prostate massager.

The insertable section provides 9 cm of usable length, with a listed 9.25 cm circumference at its widest point. Its bulbous shape is intended to direct pressure towards the prostate, while an integrated silicone cock ring remains outside the body. Two motors power the prostate section and ring area, giving the design a genuinely different purpose from Eero, which concentrates more specifically on internal P-spot vibration.

What stands out to us is how much sense the remote makes with this particular design. Once an insertable toy is positioned, controls on the product itself can become inconvenient. Malm lets you move through its 10 vibration modes without repeatedly reaching for the toy, and a partner can take control of the remote too.

The liquid silicone construction and USB-rechargeable power also make it more convenient than battery-operated options.

If you like the combined ring design but want to compare other ring styles separately, Raeven’s cock rings for men include manual and powered alternatives.

Malm is not the obvious choice if all you want is a small plug or simple manual prostate pressure. You are paying for a combined design, and that only makes sense if the cock-ring element appeals to you.

Its waterproof rating is also not currently published. That matters. We would clean it according to Raeven’s product instructions without fully submerging the powered unit unless its instructions specifically confirm that this is safe.

Pros

• Combines internal prostate and external ring stimulation

• Two motors and 10 vibration modes

• Wireless remote

• USB rechargeable

• Compact 9 cm insertable section

• Liquid silicone construction

Things to consider

• More complicated than a simple plug or manual massager

• Waterproof rating is currently not listed

Our verdict: If you want one of Raeven’s most feature-complete male anal toys rather than a basic entry option, Malm makes the strongest all-round case.

2. Traina 4-Piece Men’s Anal Training Set — Best for Beginners

Best for: First-time buyers who would rather progress through several sizes than guess which single plug to buy.

For a beginner, we prefer Traina’s approach to buying one fixed-size plug and hoping you chose correctly.

The set contains four silicone plugs, each with a tapered tip and external retrieval handle. Published insertable lengths range from 7.5 cm to 10 cm, while listed circumferences range from 7.5 cm to 11.5 cm.

The real advantage here is not simply that you receive four products. It is that you can stay with the smaller plug until it feels manageable rather than treating the larger sizes as a target you need to reach quickly.

Each plug is completely manual. There are no batteries, vibration modes, remotes or charging cables to think about. When you are learning what size and amount of pressure you prefer, that simplicity is useful because you can concentrate on depth, angle and comfort.

That also makes Traina a logical entry point into Raeven’s broader anal training toys, where the focus is on gradual sizing and more manageable shapes rather than maximum intensity.

We also prefer the tapered profile for this purpose. The tip enters narrower and increases in width gradually rather than immediately presenting the widest section of the plug.

There is one specification issue worth knowing. Raeven currently lists both Plug 3 and Plug 4 with a 7.5 cm circumference, even though Plug 4 is described as the smallest model. We would therefore pay more attention to the clearly published insertable lengths until those progression measurements are corrected or confirmed.

Pros

• Four sizes in one set

• Silicone construction

• Tapered tips

• External retrieval handles

• No batteries or charging

• Better room for gradual progression than one fixed-size plug

Things to consider

• No vibration

• Two smaller plugs currently share the same listed circumference

Our verdict: For someone buying their first anal toys for men, Traina gives you more control over sizing than almost anything else in the current range.

3. SVAKOM Primo Remote-Controlled Warming Butt Plug — Best Premium Butt Plug

Best for: Anyone who wants plug-style pressure but does not want to give up powered features.

Primo sits in an interesting middle ground. It is still recognisably a butt plug rather than a large prostate device, but SVAKOM has added enough functionality to make it feel very different from a manual plug.

Its silicone body measures 26 mm by 120 mm and uses a ridged insertable profile with a flared base. It provides five vibration modes and five intensity levels, so you can adjust the pattern separately from the strength. Controls are available directly on the plug or through the supplied remote.

Then there is the feature none of the simpler plugs in this guide provides: warming.

Primo heats to approximately 38°C, giving you a warm surface alongside vibration. We would treat that as a preference feature rather than something everybody needs, but it gives Primo a clear reason to exist beside Kvist and Svan.

It is also one of the easier powered toys here to discuss from a cleaning perspective because SVAKOM lists it as waterproof. Its rechargeable battery takes roughly two hours to charge and is listed for around one hour of operation on a full charge.

If you want to compare the shape with simpler alternatives rather than more electronics, Raeven’s butt plugs collection includes manual, training and vibrating designs. If powered stimulation is the priority, the vibrating anal toys collection is the more relevant place to compare it.

If you only want steady plug pressure, Svan is far simpler. If you only want basic vibration, Kvist does not burden you with heating, a remote or charging. Primo makes most sense when those extra controls are precisely what you want.

Pros

• Five vibration modes

• Five separate intensity levels

• Approximately 38°C warming function

• Remote and direct controls

• Waterproof

• USB rechargeable

• Silicone body and flared base

Things to consider

• More functions than a beginner may need

• Around one hour of listed runtime per full charge

Our verdict: Primo is our pick for someone who likes the shape and pressure of a butt plug but wants considerably more control than a basic vibrating model provides.

4. Eero 10-Function Remote Controlled Prostate Massager — Best Remote Prostate Massager

Best for: Men who want detailed vibration control specifically around prostate stimulation.

Eero is a good example of why specifications matter more than phrases such as “powerful” or “advanced”.

Raeven lists a 10 cm insertable length, 3 cm diameter and approximately 3.75-inch circumference at the widest point. Those numbers tell us more than a vague size label ever could. The curved section is shaped for P-spot positioning, while the total product measures 14 cm.

Where Eero separates itself from the other prostate massagers is control.

You get 10 vibration patterns plus six speed levels. That means you are not forced to choose between a handful of preset combinations where a pattern you like may automatically come with an intensity you do not.

The wireless remote is also compact enough for one-handed operation and can be passed to a partner.

If we were deciding between Eero and Malm, the decision would be quite simple. Choose Eero if your priority is a dedicated prostate massager with extensive vibration adjustment. Choose Malm if the integrated cock ring and additional external stimulation are important.

You can compare both against Raeven’s wider range of vibrating prostate massagers, which includes remote-controlled, perineum-stimulating and combined designs.

There are two things Raeven does not currently confirm on Eero’s product page: its material and waterproof rating. We would not fill those gaps by assumption. Raeven specifically advises against fully submerging it unless the supplied instructions confirm that it is safe.

Pros

• 10 vibration patterns

• Six speed levels

• Wireless remote

• 10 cm insertable length

• 3 cm maximum diameter

• USB rechargeable

• Curved P-spot design

Things to consider

• Material is not currently stated

• Waterproof rating is unconfirmed

Our verdict: Eero is the better choice when vibration control matters more to you than extra features around the base.

5. Torq Thrusting Remote Controlled Prostate Massager — Best Thrusting Option

Best for: Men who want powered movement rather than vibration alone.

Torq is the product we would look at after asking one question:

Do you actually want thrusting movement?

If the answer is no, Eero or Vard probably makes more sense. If the answer is yes, Torq offers something the majority of the products in this guide cannot.

Its silicone shaft provides 10.5 cm of insertable length and reaches 3 cm at its maximum diameter. Alongside vibration, the motor creates automatic back-and-forth movement rather than relying completely on your hand to create motion. Raeven lists 10 powered vibration and thrusting functions.

That changes how we would compare it with a standard prostate vibrator. With Eero, your main adjustments are vibration pattern and speed. Torq adds physical powered movement, which is likely to matter much more than another two or three vibration patterns if movement is what you are looking for.

The wireless remote also makes sense with this type of toy because you can alter the powered settings without disturbing its position.

Torq uses magnetic USB charging, and unlike Eero or Malm, Raeven explicitly lists the product as waterproof.

We would put it later in the progression for someone completely inexperienced. Not because its published diameter is enormous—it is still listed at 3 cm—but because powered thrusting adds another variable at the same time as insertion, prostate positioning and vibration.

If you have not used a P-spot toy before, Raeven’s beginner prostate massagers provide simpler alternatives, while its How to Use a Prostate Massager guide covers positioning, lubricant, controls and cleaning before moving into more feature-heavy products.

One specification should still be handled carefully: Raeven currently lists 10 powered functions but does not provide a confirmed breakdown showing exactly how many are thrusting speeds, vibration patterns or combination modes.

Pros

• Automatic thrusting

• Vibration

• Wireless remote

• Silicone construction

• Magnetic USB charging

• Waterproof

• Compact 3 cm maximum diameter

Things to consider

• Powered movement may be unnecessary for a first anal toy

• Exact split of its 10 functions is not currently published

Our verdict: If automatic movement is the feature you care about, Torq makes a more logical choice than paying for a conventional vibrator with additional patterns.

6. Vard Manual Prostate Massager — Best Manual Prostate Toy

Best for: Men who want direct P-spot pressure without motors, batteries or vibration.

Vard takes almost the opposite approach to Eero and Torq.

There is no remote to lose, battery to charge or pattern menu to remember. Its job is to give you a firm curved shape that you control yourself.

The massager is made from ABS plastic, which means it holds its shape rather than flexing like a softer silicone design. It provides 11 cm of insertable length with a listed 9.5 cm circumference at the widest point. The rounded bulbous tip is paired with a rippled shaft and a flared external base.

That firm construction is the main reason we chose it as the best manual prostate option.

With a flexible vibrating toy, part of the experience comes from the motor. With Vard, you change the pressure by altering the angle and movement yourself. Some men will prefer that direct control; others will immediately miss vibration.

Its 90 g weight also keeps it relatively uncomplicated to handle.

We would particularly consider Vard if you are interested in prostate stimulation but do not yet know whether paying for ten patterns, remote operation or automatic thrusting is worthwhile. The wider prostate massagers range makes it easy to compare that manual approach against powered alternatives.

Pros

• Firm ABS construction

• 11 cm insertable length

• Curved prostate profile

• Bulbous tip and rippled shaft

• Flared base

• No batteries or charging

• Full manual control

Things to consider

• No vibration

• Firmer feel than flexible silicone products

Our verdict: Vard is proof that a useful prostate toy does not necessarily need electronics. It is the clearest choice here for men who want to control the pressure and movement themselves.

7. Kvist 7-Function Vibrating Men’s Butt Plug — Best Simple Vibrating Plug

Best for: Buyers who want vibration without moving to a remote-controlled premium plug.

Kvist makes much more sense when you look at it beside Primo.

Primo gives you heat, remote operation, five patterns, five intensity levels and rechargeable power. Kvist strips most of that away and keeps the feature many buyers actually came for: vibration.

The silicone plug has 8 cm of insertable length, a tapered tip, narrowed neck and flared base. A removable bullet provides seven vibration settings through one button.

That one-button setup is not as flexible as Eero or Primo, but it is considerably easier to understand. Hold the button to switch the vibrator on or off and press it to move through the settings.

The removable bullet is another useful detail. You can use the silicone plug without vibration if you want, and removing the powered section also separates it from the main silicone body for cleaning according to the instructions.

It runs on one AAA battery, which is not included. If you already use other battery-powered toys, Raeven has a dedicated batteries for sex toys collection covering AAA and other common sizes. Always match the exact battery type required by the toy.

Raeven does not currently provide a waterproof rating for Kvist, so the bullet and battery compartment should not be submerged unless its instructions specifically confirm that this is safe.

Pros

• Seven vibration settings

• Silicone body

• Tapered tip

• Narrowed neck

• Flared base

• Removable bullet

• Straightforward single-button control

Things to consider

• Requires one AAA battery

• Battery is not included

• Waterproof rating is not stated

Our verdict: Kvist is the sensible middle option between a completely manual plug and a more expensive remote-controlled design.

8. Svan Manual Silicone Men’s Butt Plug — Best Compact Manual Plug

Best for: Anyone who wants a small, straightforward silicone plug without electronics.

If you do not need vibration, Svan is easier to recommend than trying to justify features you may never use.

It provides 7.5 cm of insertable length and an 8.5 cm listed circumference at its widest point. The body begins with a tapered tip, widens gradually, then narrows again at the neck before reaching its flared external base.

That progression in shape matters.

A plug is not simply a cylinder with a base attached. The narrower tip gives you a more gradual entry point, the fuller centre provides the main pressure and the narrowed neck helps the plug sit in position after the widest section has passed.

Svan's manual design also means you decide exactly how much movement there is. There are no unexpected pattern changes and nothing to charge beforehand.

Its compact profile also makes it relevant to Raeven’s small anal toys collection. If material is one of your main selection criteria, Raeven separately groups its silicone anal toys.

Compared with Traina, however, you are committing to a single size. We would favour Traina if you specifically want room to move gradually between several plugs. We would favour Svan if you already know you want a compact fixed-size option.

Raeven does not currently publish its exact maximum diameter, neck width or total product length. Those are worth acknowledging rather than trying to calculate measurements that the manufacturer has not supplied.

Pros

• 7.5 cm insertable length

• Silicone construction

• Tapered, graduated profile

• Narrowed neck

• Flared base

• No batteries or charging

Things to consider

• One fixed size

• Exact diameter and total length are not currently stated

Our verdict: Svan is one of the easiest Raeven products to understand: a compact silicone plug for someone who does not need vibration, heat or a remote.

9. Arktis Triple Ripple Anal Beads — Best Anal Beads

Best for: Men who prefer progressive movement to the steady pressure of a plug.

Anal beads are not simply another shape of butt plug, and Arktis deserves its own recommendation because it provides a different type of stimulation.

The set uses three progressively sized silicone beads connected by a flexible silicone cord. You begin with the smaller bead and can progress through the larger sections at your own pace. An external retrieval loop remains outside the body for handling and removal.

The difference between Arktis and Svan is easiest to understand in terms of movement.

Svan is designed around a single fuller section settling past a narrower neck. Arktis gives you three changing widths along a flexible connection. If gradual movement through several rounded sections interests you more than continuous plug pressure, beads are the more relevant choice.

There are no batteries or motors, so depth and pace stay under manual control.

Because the beads use progressive sizing, Arktis also appears within Raeven’s anal training toys, alongside plugs and other products intended for more gradual anal play.

The main limitation is documentation rather than features. Raeven currently does not publish the total length, insertable length or individual bead diameters. Because those dimensions would be particularly useful for a first-time bead buyer, we would like to see them added to the listing.

Cleaning also deserves more attention with beads than a single smooth plug. Work around each bead and connecting section rather than simply cleaning the broad outer surfaces.

Pros

• Three progressively sized beads

• Silicone construction

• Flexible connecting cord

• External retrieval loop

• Manual control

• No batteries

Things to consider

• Exact bead dimensions are not currently published

• More contours and joining sections to clean than a basic plug

Our verdict: Choose Arktis when the progressive movement of anal beads appeals to you more than the steady pressure of a conventional butt plug.

10. Sommar Slimline Silicone Anal Dildo – 5 Inch — Best Slim Dildo for Partnered Use

Best for: Men who want a narrow manual anal dildo with suction and listed harness compatibility.

Sommar fills a gap that the plugs and prostate massagers do not.

It gives you 5 inches of insertable length but keeps the diameter to a relatively slim 0.9 inches, with a listed circumference of 3.25 inches. Its silicone shaft has a gentle curve, while the base functions as a suction cup.

The important distinction here is control over movement.

With a plug, the product is generally intended to remain positioned. With Sommar, you can control depth, pace and angle manually. The gentle curve also allows some directional positioning rather than using a completely straight shaft.

The suction base adds another option for solo use on a suitable clean, smooth surface. Raeven also lists the toy as compatible with standard O-ring harnesses, making it the most relevant product in this group for partnered harness use.

The slimmer design also places Sommar naturally beside Raeven’s other small anal toys rather than the larger or powered end of the range.

We would still check fit before buying specifically for a harness. Raeven does not currently publish the exact base diameter or required O-ring size, so “standard O-ring compatible” should not be treated as a guarantee that it will fit every harness.

Pros

• Slim 0.9-inch diameter

• 5-inch insertable length

• Silicone shaft

• Gentle curve

• Suction-cup base

• Listed O-ring harness compatibility

• No batteries or charging

Things to consider

• Fixed width

• Exact compatible harness-ring size is not stated

Our verdict: Sommar makes most sense when you want more deliberate manual movement than a plug provides, particularly if suction or partnered harness use is part of the plan.

How to Choose the Right Anal Toy for You

Picking the best anal toy for men becomes much easier once you stop treating plugs, prostate massagers, beads and dildos as interchangeable.

They are not.

The better question is: what do you actually want the toy to do?

Choose a Butt Plug for Steady Pressure

A butt plug is generally the simplest option if you want a toy that widens through the main body and then settles around a narrower neck.

Within Raeven’s range, that can mean a straightforward manual plug such as Svan, vibration through Kvist, or significantly more functionality from SVAKOM Primo.

The shape matters as much as the electronics. Look for a tapered entry, a narrower neck and a secure external base.

Choose a Prostate Massager for P-Spot Targeting

Prostate massagers use a curved or angled shape designed to direct pressure towards the prostate rather than simply creating general fullness.

You then need to decide what kind of control you want.

Vard keeps everything manual.

Eero gives you vibration with extensive pattern and speed control.

Malm adds an integrated cock ring and second motor.

Torq goes further by adding automatic thrusting movement.

That is why “best prostate massager” cannot really mean one product for every buyer. The stimulation method changes substantially from model to model.

Choose Anal Beads for Progressive Movement

Beads such as Arktis give you several changing widths rather than one fixed plug body.

That makes them worth considering if the movement from one bead to the next is the main appeal. It is a different proposition from leaving a plug positioned at a steady depth.

Choose a Training Set if You Are Unsure About Size

A multi-size kit solves one of the most common buying problems: knowing what “small” actually means for you.

Traina gives you four differently sized plugs rather than asking you to commit to one. We would much rather see a beginner take time with the smallest comfortable size than buy a larger product purely because it offers more length or more features.

Raeven’s anal training toys collection is useful if gradual sizing is more important to you than powered functions.

Choose a Dildo When Manual Movement Matters More

Sommar gives you more manual control over movement, depth and angle than a typical plug.

Its suction base also gives it a practical use that none of the simple plugs can copy.

Size Matters, but Length Is Only Part of the Story

A product can be long and relatively slim, or short and significantly wider.

That is why reading only the overall length is not enough.

For anal toys, pay attention to:

Insertable length: the portion intended to enter the body.

Diameter: the straight-line width across the product.

Circumference: the measurement around the product.

Total length: the complete physical size, including areas such as bases and handles.

A good example is Sommar. Its 5-inch insertable length sounds substantial beside some of the shorter plugs, but it is listed at only 0.9 inches in diameter. Svan, meanwhile, is only 7.5 cm insertable but has an 8.5 cm listed circumference at its widest point.

Do not assume that the longest product is automatically the most demanding one.

Width, taper and flexibility all affect the comparison.

If a narrower design is specifically what you want, Raeven’s small anal toys group compact plugs, slim dildos, training products and smaller prostate options in one place.

Shape Can Matter More Than Another Vibration Setting

If two toys have similar dimensions, look at the profile next.

A tapered tip gives you a narrower entry point before the product increases in width.

A bulbous prostate tip concentrates pressure through a fuller curved section.

A narrow neck allows the body of a plug to sit differently once the widest part has passed.

Ridges or ripples add changing surface texture as the product moves.

A curved shaft gives you more directional positioning than a completely straight one.

This is why choosing between Vard and Svan based purely on size misses the point. Svan is shaped as a plug. Vard is curved specifically towards manual prostate stimulation. Their intended use is different even before electronics enter the comparison.

Manual, Vibrating or Thrusting: Which Is Better?

There is no automatic upgrade path where powered always means better.

A manual product can actually give you more immediate control because your hand controls every movement.

For manual use, look at Vard, Svan, Traina, Arktis or Sommar.

For vibration, Kvist is the simpler plug option, while Eero provides far more adjustment around prostate stimulation.

For vibration plus external stimulation, Malm adds the integrated cock ring.

For heat plus vibration, Primo is the specialist choice.

For automatic movement plus vibration, Torq is the clear option from this selection.

If powered anal stimulation is specifically what you are comparing, Raeven’s male anal vibrators bring several of these designs together by feature rather than by shape alone.

The important question is not which product has the longest specification list. It is which of those features you will actually use.

Are Remote Controls Worth Having?

For an external vibrator, a remote can sometimes feel unnecessary.

For an insertable toy, it makes considerably more practical sense.

Once Eero, Malm, Primo or Torq is positioned, the remote lets you change settings without repeatedly reaching down to find a button on the product. It can also be handed to a partner without changing the toy’s position.

That is the practical reason we give remote control more weight on an anal toy than we would on some other products.

If you know you will only use one favourite setting, however, a single-button model such as Kvist may be all you need.

Rechargeable or Replaceable Batteries?

Rechargeable models remove the need to keep spare batteries nearby.

Malm, Eero, Torq and Primo use rechargeable power.

Kvist uses a replaceable AAA battery.

Vard, Svan, Traina, Arktis and Sommar need no power at all.

If you choose a battery-powered product such as Kvist, Raeven’s sex toy batteries include AAA replacements alongside other common battery sizes.

There is no universally better system.

Rechargeable power suits frequent use and products with stronger electronic feature sets. Replaceable batteries can be convenient if you do not want another charging cable. Manual toys remove power management completely.

Which Anal Toy Is Best for Beginners?

For a complete beginner, Traina is our first choice.

The reason is simple: it gives you more than one size.

You can use the smallest suitable plug with plenty of lubricant and only move to another size when you are comfortable. There is no reason to treat progression as something you have to complete in a single session—or at all.

If you prefer one simple product, Svan is another sensible option because it combines a 7.5 cm insertable section with a tapered profile and flared base.

We would not automatically choose the toy with the smallest number on its specification sheet, though.

For a beginner, look at the complete design:

• Is the tip tapered?

• How quickly does the body widen?

• Is the product flexible or firm?

• Is there a secure flared base or external retrieval handle?

• Can you easily control depth and movement?

• Are you adding vibration or automatic movement before you know whether you actually want it?

Those questions are more useful than simply sorting products from shortest to longest.

For prostate-specific first purchases, Raeven’s beginner prostate massagers narrow the choice to simpler manual and compact powered designs.

How to Use Anal Toys More Comfortably and Safely

Anal play needs lubricant because the anus does not naturally provide enough lubrication for penetration. NHS sexual-health guidance notes that friction and sudden movement can damage delicate anal tissue and recommends suitable lubricant for anal sex.

For the silicone products in this guide, a water-based lubricant is the easiest general option because it avoids the material-compatibility questions that can come with silicone-based formulas.

Raeven’s sex lube collection includes everyday water-based formulas as well as thicker products made specifically for anal use. For a more targeted option, Aloe-Infused Anal Lube 100ml is a thick water-based formula that Raeven lists as toy safe and intended for anal application.

Apply lubricant to both the toy and anal opening and add more whenever glide begins to reduce.

Do not use discomfort as a measure of progress. Insert gradually, control the angle and stop if you experience pain or strong discomfort.

For toys intended to remain inserted, keep the product’s flared base, retrieval handle or retrieval loop outside the body where applicable.

If you are unsure about lubricant compatibility or what should and should not be substituted for purpose-made lube, Raeven’s Anal Lube Alternatives guide goes through the main options and material considerations.

If you are sharing an anal toy with another person, infection risk also matters. Clean the product properly between users and follow appropriate barrier guidance for the product being used.

How to Clean Anal Toys

Check the instructions for the specific product rather than treating every toy as waterproof.

That distinction is especially important with powered products.

Primo and Torq are explicitly listed as waterproof.

Eero does not currently have a confirmed waterproof rating. Raeven specifically advises against full submersion unless the supplied instructions confirm otherwise.

Kvist also has no published waterproof rating, and its bullet vibrator and battery compartment should therefore be kept away from excess water unless its instructions say otherwise.

Malm's waterproof rating is likewise not currently listed.

Clean products before and after use according to their care instructions and allow them to dry fully before storage. Pay attention to necks, ridges, cords, retrieval loops and the underside of bases rather than cleaning only the obvious outer surface.

For reusable products where the manufacturer's material guidance permits it, Raeven has a dedicated sex toy cleaner collection with cleaner sprays intended for toys including plugs, prostate massagers and vibrators.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best anal toy for men?

Our overall choice is the Malm Remote Controlled Prostate Massager with Cock Ring because it combines a 9 cm insertable prostate section, liquid silicone construction, two motors, 10 vibration modes, a wireless remote and an integrated cock ring.

That does not make it the correct choice for everybody. A beginner may be better served by Traina, while someone who only wants manual prostate pressure may prefer Vard.

What is the best anal toy for a beginner?

We would pick the Traina 4-Piece Men’s Anal Training Set because the four differently sized plugs give you room to find a manageable size and progress gradually if you want to.

For one fixed-size product, Svan is another simple option with a tapered silicone body and flared base.

What is the difference between a prostate massager and a butt plug?

A butt plug is generally shaped to pass through a wider section and settle around a narrower neck, creating steady anal pressure.

A prostate massager normally has a curved or angled insertable section designed to direct pressure towards the prostate. Products such as Eero, Vard and Torq use distinctly curved prostate-focused profiles.

You can compare the categories directly through Raeven’s butt plugs and prostate massagers collections.

What size anal toy should a beginner choose?

There is no single measurement that suits every person.

Look at width or circumference as well as insertable length, choose a tapered shape where possible and avoid forcing progression. A multi-size product such as Traina can be useful because it lets you compare several sizes rather than guessing which single plug will suit you.

Do anal toys need a flared base?

Products intended to remain inserted should have an external feature designed to prevent the complete toy from entering the rectum, such as a flared base, handle or retrieval loop.

Svan and Kvist use flared bases, Traina uses external handles and Arktis uses an external retrieval loop.

What lubricant should I use with anal toys?

A water-based lubricant is a practical general choice for anal toys, particularly when using silicone products.

Raeven’s Aloe-Infused Anal Lube 100ml is a thick water-based formula specifically listed for anal application and as toy safe. Raeven also has a wider lubes collection if you want to compare formulas and bottle sizes.

Are vibrating anal toys better than manual toys?

Not necessarily.

Vibration adds another type of stimulation, but manual products provide direct control and require no batteries, charging or settings.

Choose a powered model because you specifically want vibration, heat, remote operation or automatic movement—not because electronics automatically make a toy better.

What is the difference between Eero and Torq?

Eero focuses on adjustable vibration, providing 10 patterns and six speed levels through a wireless remote.

Torq adds automatic thrusting movement alongside vibration and is listed as waterproof with magnetic USB charging.

If detailed vibration control is the priority, we would favour Eero. If powered movement is the deciding feature, Torq makes more sense.

Can I share an anal toy with a partner?

Sharing sex toys can transfer bodily fluids and infections between people, so toys should be cleaned properly between users and any appropriate barrier should be changed between users.

Always check the manufacturer's instructions for the specific product and material before sharing it.

Which Anal Toy Should You Choose?

If you want the shortest version of our recommendations, choose by what you actually want from the product.

Choose Malm if you want the most complete combination of prostate stimulation, vibration, remote control and an integrated cock ring.

Choose Traina if this is your first time buying anal toys and you want several sizes rather than guessing one.

Choose Primo if you specifically want a feature-rich vibrating butt plug with warming and remote control.

Choose Eero if detailed vibration adjustment and prostate targeting matter most.

Choose Torq if automatic thrusting is the feature you care about.

Choose Vard if you prefer firm manual prostate pressure without electronics.

Choose Kvist if you want a simpler vibrating butt plug.

Choose Svan if all you need is a compact manual silicone plug.

Choose Arktis if you prefer progressive bead movement.

Choose Sommar if you want a slim manual dildo with suction and listed harness compatibility.

The best choice is rarely the toy with the largest size or longest specification list. It is the one whose dimensions, shape and control style fit what you actually want to do with it.

Compare the complete Raeven Anal Toys collection for butt plugs, prostate massagers, training sets, anal beads, vibrating options and other male anal toys available from Raeven in the UK.